Humility is a virtue characterized by modesty, selflessness, and self-awareness. A humble person does not boast, she consistently enables and elevates the gifts and contributions of others, and he understands his dependence, limitations, and imperfection.
Self-awareness
Humility starts with recognizing one’s own strengths and weaknesses, good intentions and self-centered desires. It involves acknowledging that we all regularly fall short of ideals that we, society, and God uphold. A world class athlete who realizes how much of their talent is a gift, who is able to diagnose the weak spots in their stride, and who acknowledges their weakness in other areas of life demonstrates humility; as does a layperson who prays and fasts to conquer a bad habit in their lives.
For by the grace given to me I say to every one of you not to think more highly of yourself than you ought to think, but to think with sober discernment, as God has distributed to each of you a measure of faith.
Romans 12:3 NET
Respect for Others
Humility involves treating others with kindness, empathy, and respect, regardless of their social status or achievements. It means valuing and appreciating the contributions and perspectives of others. For instance, a leader who actively listens to the ideas and concerns of their team members, and values their input, demonstrates humility.
Instead of being motivated by selfish ambition or vanity, each of you should, in humility, be moved to treat one another as more important than yourself.
Philippians 2:3 NET
Admitting mistakes
Humble individuals admit their errors, take responsibility for them, and strive to learn from them. They don’t hesitate to apologize and make amends when necessary. For example, a business executive who openly acknowledges their misjudgment and takes corrective action, prioritizing the well-being of their employees over personal pride, displays humility.
Whoever hides his transgressions will not succeed, but whoever confesses and forsakes them will find mercy.
Proverbs 28:13, ISV
Sharing credit
Humility involves recognizing and acknowledging the contributions of others in one’s success. Instead of claiming sole credit, humble individuals share recognition and praise with their teammates or collaborators. A successful artist who acknowledges the support and influence of their mentors, peers, and fans demonstrates humility by attributing their achievements to a collective effort.
Willingness to learn
Because they appreciate how much they don’t know, the humble are curious, teachable, and thirsty for knowledge. They are open to new ideas, perspectives, experiences, and certainly, correction. They understand that wisdom can be found in unexpected places and are receptive to learning from others, regardless of their age or status. An academic who seeks feedback from colleagues, welcomes constructive criticism, and continually expands their understanding of the world exhibits humility.
Counsel a wise man, and he will be wiser still; teach a righteous man, and he will add to his learning.
Proverbs 9:9, ISV
Service to others
Humility involves a willingness to serve and help others without seeking personal gain or recognition. It is expressed through acts of kindness, generosity, and compassion. For instance, a philanthropist who quietly supports charitable causes, genuinely aiming to make a positive impact on society, exemplifies humility.
Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
Philippians 2:3-8
Reflection
- In which aspect of humility am I most lacking?
- Who do I know that personifies humility, and how so?
- What can I do as a concrete action to be more humble in this area?